I know this isn't a legal advice column, but I thought I'd post this up in the Off Topic forum to get some opinions. Thought maybe somebody else may have been in my shoes or know the best way to approach these type of things.
Got a bit of a curly one here...
The story
Once upon a time I was out on the water fishing with a guy I know. During our trip, I accidentally damaged part of the boat (long story) and I agreed to pay for it. No issues there.
Over the last few years (5 years according to the owner) he has contacted me a couple of times saying he's going to get the damaged fixed... then I don't hear from him for a while and he doesn't get around to getting the repair done. This happens several times and last time was last year.
Then the week before this one been, I receive an email from the guy saying he's finally had the repair done and asks if I have $530? I tell him I don't currently, but will on the next payday (Tuesday just been) and tell him I will also need his details. I didn't hear back, so I then emailed him saying I would need him to send me a copy of the invoices and his postal address so I could send him the money.
He comes back, gives me his address and tries to laugh the invoices part off because in his words - "I sort of had it done as a homer". I then told him that I need the invoices for my tax records and that once I receive these, I will send the cheque ASAP. Don't hear back.
Didn't hear from him again until this afternoon via txt message. He asked if I had deposited the money into his account yet?
It's obviously going to be a small hassle for him to get receipts for this work because of the way he got it done, but it's not that much of an issue I wouldn't think and it's a usual business transaction. After all, you don't get your car serviced and pay without receiving a copy of the invoice do you!
The problem I have is that he never got in touch to let me know that he was actually finally getting the repair done. If he had done so, I would have asked for him to get me a couple of quotes and then if he had told me he had a mate who could do the work, I could have got an idea of cost and agreed with doing it that way. I'm not going to argue the amount, but I am in the dark as to how much a repair of its nature should cost. I mean, sure, if it was a couple hundred dollars, I would have just paid, but it's not. It's over half a grand! And that's a fair amount to me.
Now, I'm a decent guy and have no issues with sorting him out what he is now owed. I believe I am entitled to copies of some type of receipts for my records. Do you guys reckon I'm being a prick the way I'm approaching this, or would you do the same if you were in my shoes? At the end of the day I really just want to make sure I'm covering myself.
Don't hesitate to tell me I'm being a muppet if that is what you believe the case to be.
